Journey to Writer: Sharing Mine

I have found a way to share the beginning of my self-actualizing journey into becoming a writer.   Many people have said to me that they too wanted to become writers, and I was told that it would be a good idea to share what I know about my own journey.  So, here it is...

Journey to Writer - A 7-Week Writing Webinar/Teleseminar
www.journeytowriter.com

I'll share a step by step plan that you need to place pen to paper, finger to keyboard, and share your book with the world.  Take your first step on your journey into author-hood.

Visualize this.  In seven weeks, you’ll have obtained the foundational tools you need to:

• Gain the confidence to write your book for the world to see.

• Take action on your dreams of being an author or writer.

• Be the author signing books at your own book signings.

• Have the basic tools to create the book.

***And, this is all from the comfort of your home office, or sofa.

There is a book you want to write.

You know you can write a book, but you also know there's a problem: What comes next?  How does your book go from an idea, to on paper, to publication? What are your publishing options?

Sign up for Journey to Writer and get on the road to becoming an author.

Join me on a free 45 minute webinar/teleseminar on December 3, 2013, at 7 p.m.

 

Register now!

https://attendee.gotowebinar.com/register/632108489983952385

Journey to Writer - Webinar/Teleseminar Details When:  December 10, 2013 to January 21, 2014 Time: 7 p.m.  Where: Webinar/Teleseminar Dial-in-Details will be provided.  
Cost: $297 (Before 12/4/13) Per Person


Angeline is the author of the novels Sojourner’s Dream and, soon to be released, Lamentation of a Warrior. 

Contact Angeline Bandon-Bibum  with questions: angeline@angelinebandonbibum.com 

A Photographic Exhibition at Howard University in Honor of Nelson Mandela

My husband and I, both Howard University alumni, are just back from a special event at the Howard University.  It was a gala reception at the Howard University Founders Library.  It previewed the premier of a new exhibition.  It is entitled "Mandela: Character, Comrade, Leader, Prisoner, Negotiator, Statesman.”  It is an awesome photographic exhibition of the many stages of Nelson Mandela's life and impact on South Africa and the world, replete with direct quotations from Nelson Mandela.  

We also got a chance to meet the new interim president of Howard University, Dr. Wayne A.I. Frederick, who was very gracious.  There were also other dignitaries there, such as the South African Ambassador to the United States.  I really enjoyed the event.  I hope you get a chance to view this new exhibition at The Moorland-Spingarn Research Center Gallery at Howard University.

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum www.angelinebandonbibum.com

Remembering Mrs. Wanda Harris: A Howard Alumna's Impact on My Life

As we near the time for the Howard University 2013 Homecoming, I would like to honor a great lady, a Howard alumna, who gave back to the community via her service as the Director of the Guidance Department at Atlantic City High School.  Mrs. Wanda Harris was the Director of the Guidance Department of Atlantic City High School, where I volunteered for an hour each day during my senior year at Atlantic City High School.

As a student volunteer in the guidance office, I would answer phones, type, run errands, shelve books, etc.  The best part of this experience was meeting Mrs. Harris.   Mrs. Harris personally showed me the process of applying to colleges and applying for scholarships and financial aid.  She did not have to do this because I had a counselor, but thank God she did.  Her help made a huge difference in my life.  With her continual guidance, at that critical time in my life, I had the information and support that I really needed to succeed in getting into a good college. 

Mrs. Harris would notify me, and other students, as soon as scholarship information was available.  I would promptly fill out the application forms, provide information, write essays, and go to interviews to meet the requirements for the scholarship.  Mrs. Harris would remind me, whenever she saw me, to make sure that I submitted the information on time.   She reminded me to take the SAT on time, too. 

When I was accepted into Howard University, I quickly informed Mrs. Harris.  We rejoiced at the news.  I also told her the dormitory that I would be staying in was the Harriet Tubman Quadrangle - Truth Hall.  I told her the room that I was staying in, room 206, and she joyfully smiled and said that was the same exact room that she stayed in 30 years earlier when she was a Howard University student.  (My high school classmate, Krystal, was also accepted into Howard University and we stayed in that room.)  

Mrs. Wanda Harris passed away some years ago.  Yet, I will always remember what she did for me, and others, at Atlantic City High School.  In my heart, I thank Mrs. Harris, an awesome Howard University alumna, who gave back in her own special way.

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum

www.angelinebandonbibum.com

 

A Prayer on International Day of Peace

     Today is International Day of Peace, as declared by the United Nations (U.N.) General Assembly.  The U.N. established it in 1981.

     On that note, I'd like to end this day with a prayer for peace on Earth.  Let the peace be a result of the presence of the Holy Spirit in mankind and the justice which would result from the widespread presence of the Holy Spirit.   Let it be so for the sake of the planet and for the sake of our children. 

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum

What Parents Can't Stop Doing

     Since her performance on the 2013 MTV Video Music Awards, media attention has been on Miley Cyrus's song and video "We Can't Stop".  

     To be fair, before forming an opinion about it, I decided to watch the video, "We Can't Stop".  After seeing it, I knew that we, parents, can't stop either.

     This is what we, parents, can't stop doing for our kids:

     We can't stop…

• Teaching you to honor human dignity.
• Insisting on lady-like, or gentlemanly, behavior.
• Insisting that you to have a sense of purpose (a positive one).
• Encouraging academic excellence, or at least, trying one's best in school.
• Setting boundaries, which give you enough space to grow and challenge yourself, but not enough to get hurt physically, or emotionally.
• Checking up on you, when you need to be checked up on, because we know, that kids don't "own the night".
• Hugging you, when we feel you need a hug.
• Loving you unconditionally, even when it hurts a little.

No, we can't stop either.


By Angeline Bandon-Bibum
www.angelinebandonbibum.com 

Working on Dreams in the Midst of Reality

You are working on a personal project and enjoying every minute of it.  Then, family needs and responsibilities increase and intensify, just when you need to focus on your project the most. 

For instance, summer vacation is over, and school is about to start.  A summer project is not quite complete.  (The one you've been telling your child to complete for weeks, offering help and advice.) Preferably, it should be fabulous, but it looks just acceptable.   And, even an older kid needs attention and guidance that just cannot wait.  To top that, your spouse, suddenly, wants attention.

Next, there's that last summer social event, like the wedding of a family member in another state.  The bride calls you to put the pressure on, just in case you were thinking of an excuse to not show up.  The list of responsibilities goes on and on and on...

There can seem to be so much between us and our dreams.   Yet, it’s worth it to keep our dreams alive and well because these dreams are God’s gifts to us.   These gifts are meant to be shared so that our fellow human beings can benefit from them as well.

As many of you may know, I'm working on Lamentation of a Warrior, the sequel to my first novel, Sojourner's Dream.   I'm enjoying the writing process, and its challenges, and  I’m working on my dream in the midst of reality.   I hope you are, too.

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum

Angeline's website

Writing and Research

I'm working on Lamentations of a Warrior, the sequel to my first novel, Sojourner's Dream.  I started writing Lamentations of a Warrior in 2006.  Since my duties as a mother and a wife are first priority, not to mention that I was working a full-time job, the writing process was slow.  My family had been supportive of my writing the first novel, yet they wanted their attention, too.  So, the sequel was often put on the back burner, so to speak.  Nonetheless, I'm continuing on with writing the sequel, Lamentations of a Warrior, and moving toward the finish line.

One of the most interesting and time consuming aspects of the writing process, specially for historical fiction, is research.  I read a great blog article entitled "Know Thy Stuff – Why Research is Important" by Jodi Milner (My Literary Dream) yesterday about the importance of researching for a novel.  This article reminded me of the years of research that I did for my first novel, Sojourner's Dream.  The research that I did was absolutely necessary in order to write about the Rwandan genocide of 1994.  Luckily, I love to read about history, so researching was not tedious to me.  It was intriguing, and even exciting.   It was also extremely sad, at times, as I read about the depths of the horrors which innocent people had experienced, yet I digress.

To provide accurate and believable settings and situations in their stories, fiction writers may need to do extensive research.  I started writing my first novel, Sojourner's Dream, in 2002 and completed it in 2006.  Part of the reason that it took me four years to complete it was the extensive research that I had to do on Rwandan history.  In reference to Rwandan history and culture, I read dozens of books and newspaper and magazine articles.  I spent time in local libraries and in the Library of Congress in Washington, D.C.  I watched many documentaries, and I interviewed a Rwandan person whose family was brutally murdered during the 100 days of this genocide in 1994.  I had travelled to three African countries prior to writing Sojourner’s Dream, yet not Rwanda, so, my research was critical.

What is one of your specific writing challenges?

 

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum

Summer Musings and Blessings

I'm missing summer already, and it isn't even over yet.   Our summer included a vacation, family reunion, volunteer camp for my youngest child, post high school graduation relief for my oldest daughter, and a summer internship for my son, to name just a few of the great things about it.

Now the familiar routine of back to school shopping, in the crowded school supplies section, and the congested traffic on the first day of school, is on the horizon.  I know I'm very proficient at this by now, but I still need to brace myself for the inevitable winds of the seasonal change.  It's time to put on my drill sergeant hat (I'm a nice one though) and make sure the summer reading assignments and projects are done, and get ready for the tidal wave of my kids’ homework, exams, and the end of staying up past midnight.

Nonetheless, there’s still enough summer left for a couple more visits to the local pool with family, and a summer date night with my husband.   I’m taking a deep breath, and feeling blessed about it all.


By Angeline Bandon-Bibum