Saturday, September 21, 2013

A Prayer on International Day of Peace

     Today is International Day of Peace, as declared by the United Nations (U.N.) General Assembly.  The U.N. established it in 1981.

     On that note, I'd like to end this day with a prayer for peace on Earth.  Let the peace be a result of the presence of the Holy Spirit in mankind and the justice which would result from the widespread presence of the Holy Spirit.   Let it be so for the sake of the planet and for the sake of our children. 

By Angeline Bandon-Bibum

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

What Parents Can't Stop Doing

     Since her performance on the 2013 MTV Video Music Awards, media attention has been on Miley Cyrus's song and video "We Can't Stop".  

     To be fair, before forming an opinion about it, I decided to watch the video, "We Can't Stop".  After seeing it, I knew that we, parents, can't stop either.

     This is what we, parents, can't stop doing for our kids:

     We can't stop…
  • Teaching you to honor human dignity.
  • Insisting on lady-like, or gentlemanly, behavior.
  • Insisting that you to have a sense of purpose (a positive one).
  • Encouraging academic excellence, or at least, trying one's best in school.
  • Setting boundaries, which give you enough space to grow and challenge yourself, but not enough to get hurt physically, or emotionally.
  • Checking up on you, when you need to be checked up on, because we know, that kids don't "own the night".
  • Hugging you, when we feel you need a hug.
  • Loving you unconditionally, even when it hurts a little.
No, we can't stop either.


By Angeline Bandon-Bibum
www.angelinebandonbibum.com